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How do I get over being Broken-Hearted?

Dear Queen,

I had to break up with my fiance after two years and I asked you about that here: Two Years In Love And Now We Can't Marry. However, now I cannot get her out of my mind and I cannot get my emotions free of her. Feelings of marriage and all other relationship issues will always come in life and really I can't say all these problems to anyone here. I just want to know, what to do when I come across such situations. Obviously I have to face it but how??? I don't want to cry more thinking about all these conditions. Any practical help from you will be best, and I believe in you truly. Code: P1.

Signed, Broken-Hearted

Dear Broken-Hearted,

This is the first question I am putting for the public to answer. Give your answer.

The Queen, 10/1/09

Dear Broken-Hearted,

I'd like to give a few help to you Queen and to Broken-Hearted...

I know how that feels. You want to get over her but it's just so hard. So no matter how you stop yourself from seeing or contacting her, you end up finding ways. Believing that you were able to communicate with her because it's meant to be. Believing that you really were meant for each other.

It's not easy. It sure feels like hell.

It does not matter if you talk to her friend or tell people things your ex does not want you to tell. She too wants you to get over her so she could live hapily without worrying about what you would do next. Yes, she still worry about you. She still cares about you. But she does not love you anymore and you are not meant for each other.

How would I know? But then put that on your mind for now. Accept that for now. Then give yourself some love.

Love is a one way thing. You can keep loving her, make her happy without bugging her.

Relationship is two way. She should love you as you love her. So there's no relation anymore. She does not love you anymore so let her go.

Jeg, 4/21/10

Dear Queen,

I appreciate the answer. I really do. And I have make up my mind now, that I need to move on and I have moved on now....so I don't want to think about my past..really I do remember sometimes but after that i know I can't change any one's mind....so i will just let it go..I am really thankful for the answer which you and my friend has provided me...I am really obliged with it.

Signed, Broken-Hearted

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